Are you sometimes like a referee at work — Countering the aggressors on behalf of those being wronged?

You won’t allow injustices to happen, so you intervene It’s necessary, but it’s exhausting as it seems to be never ending

Here’s how to get out of this loop:

• Consider the futility of attempting to save people who consistently choose to put themselves in harm’s way

• If they are open to influence, you can coach them to hold better boundaries or take care of themselves

• The 360 system exists to root out the aggressors over time, though if it is not functioning, you’re better off finding a new organization versus attempting to reform the culture on your own

Each adult makes their own choices.

You have the choice to focus on creating your best self, and in this capacity, you may coach those who ask for your help, and let your well adjusted presence inspire others